It’s it amazing. My dysfunction was to be too accommodating and too agreeable, to put my needs last. So then when I started to increase my self-awareness, I began to balance that out and began to advocate for myself. Of course, to another person, who is well habituated to you being accommodating, this all of a sudden looks like you’re being unreasonable: “How dare you have an opinion!”

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