I think you might have misunderstood my story. I did commit for life, and I did jump through hoops to keep the family and marriage together. I have never initiated a divorce with anyone (and I am married now).

I believe in being truly selfish. When we are truly and deeply selfish, when we do what really brings us the deepest joy, we naturally take the most adaptive and least violent action.

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