…s is the most zietgeist-millenium value centered but at the same time irresponsible thing Ive read. You marry and decide to keep a vow until death shall do us apart, and you get divorced because you were “finding yourself” and you think this was the right choice? Finding yourself should make you more understanding of others and compassionate, not more self cent…
I think you might have misunderstood my story. I did commit for life, and I did jump through hoops to keep the family and marriage together. I have never initiated a divorce with anyone (and I am married now).
I believe in being truly selfish. When we are truly and deeply selfish, when we do what really brings us the deepest joy, we naturally take the most adaptive and least violent action.