…perience. I thought it was interesting that meditating was linked with becoming less accommodating. To what extent to you feel your prior behavior was a response to insecurities about the relationship or yourself? Forgive my presumptions, I’ve noticed partners in my own life exhibited similar responses to an inn…
I guess you’re asking if me being accommodating was a form of insecure attachment?
I don’t really know how to relate it to attachment style. I guess I was terrified of losing the relationship. I suppose I probably learned that advocating for myself was a threat to the relationship, so I stopped doing that, and a dysfunctional but adaptive self-reinforcing cycle started. My personality style is very adaptive.
I’m not sure.